Birth & Beginnings: childbirth conversations

Hello mothers and mothers-to-be! This blog focuses on pregnancy, childbirth, children, and parenting. Along with providing helpful information and resources, it is also a place to discuss choices and trends in these areas. The blog will inform and encourage mothers as we share and learn from each other. It is not a place to say that one opinion is better than another; instead it is a forum for camaraderie and for sharing personal experiences. So feel free to read, respond, and absorb information on a daily basis as together we traverse this world of motherhood.


Laura Tolman, CCE, LSP

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Laura Tolman is a local certified childbirth educator and labor support professional. She also works as a postpartum doula. She and her husband are long time Alaskans and are the parents and forming relationships with families while learning about other cultures. In her free time Laura enjoys writing freelance articles, poetry, and the performing arts. Her favorite pastime is being with family and coaxing uproarious laughter out of her young son.

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Not Feeling Well?

If you have ever been pregnant or nursing a baby and taken ill, you quickly realize that your options for medicine are limited. There are many medications that are simply not safe to take in pregnancy or when lactating. Since I have been in one of these two states continuously since February 2006, you would think that I would have adjusted to this fact. I have done well with certain lifestyle shifts such as limiting my caffeine intake, exercising, and nutrition. But every time I come down with an awful case of the flu or a bad cold, I begin to wish for the days when I could simply take a strong medicine that would miraculously make be feel better or at least help me to get through the day.

With pregnancy especially, you must be very careful what goes into your body. The first trimester is critical for baby development, but the growing process continues for all forty weeks and you don’t want to risk your baby’s health. Then when nursing a baby, you are faced with the similar problem of ensuring that everything that goes into your body is something that is safe for the baby as well.

Sometimes, despite a strict adherence to preventative measures such as frequent hand washing, you may find yourself dealing with a nasty bout of sickness. There are natural remedies to try and as always when I am ill, I begin to systematically go through the list in an attempt to get better faster.

I have found that taking garlic to help keep up the body’s defense system has been a life saver as well as cleansing the sinuses with saline or steam. Vitamins are useful in proper doses; just don’t take them if you can’t keep food down. I am thankful for the occasional Tylenol to ease the all over aches and pains. I drink gallons of fluids during the day, particularly water and hot tea. I eat hearty soups in hopes of revitalizing my body and gaining strength enough to keep up with my toddler. All of these I do in order to reduce the length of the illness. But it doesn’t make up for the fact that sometimes you really have to just plain tough it out.

Sleeping upright is not my idea of a restful night and going through multitudes of tissues in an hour is par for the course. I suggest that you keep your spirits up and your mind occupied. If you have other children, then try to get a day off to rest. Perhaps your spouse, a grandparent, or a friend, could help out with the kids while you recoup. Cut back on what you are doing and eliminate stress where possible as it can prolong an illness. Women are often surprised at how many of the medicines that we take for granted are not safe to use when pregnant or nursing, so be sure to do your research. There are some wonderful informational web sites and books out there and I am constantly finding new home remedies to try. Best of health to you and your baby!

For lists on what medications have been classified as safe in pregnancy or when nursing, please visit:

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Tell us about your experiences relating to illness while sick or nursing? Do you know of good remedies that are safe?


  1     April 9, 2008 - 8:01am | Beth_451

Good Question!

I have wondered about this. My mother has a whole cupboard of alternative remedies: eating LOTS of garlic, taking 1000 mg of vitamin C every hour, taking cayenne pepper, taking Zinc (Cold-Eeze or Zicam), taking Echinacea and goldenseal, taking coconut oil, drinking “throat coat” tea, and a little sip of brandy before bed to kill the bacteria in the throat and help you sleep through the night. Other than the garlic, I don't know if ANY of these remedies are safe for pregnant or nursing mothers.

I know the alcohol is definitely not (too bad since it helps me sleep and recover faster). I would imagine that the cayenne would go straight to the milk (yuck!), but would it disturb a baby in utero? Can taking generous amounts of vitamin C, zinc, goldenseal, and Echinacea harm a baby? I would think that these things would be beneficial to transfer to the baby in the milk, but I’m sure one would need to make sure that none of the herbs would dry up the milk. Over all though, I would imagine that fighting the cold with natural remedies would be generally okay, although I would consult a trusted manual or my midwife first if I had any concerns. Probably the very best thing to do would be to drink plenty of water and tea, eat the nutrient rich broth of real chicken soup, and get lots of sleep!

  April 9, 2008 - 9:48pm | mamas

Good Research and an herbalist

Certain herbs should be avoided consistently throughout pregnancy and lactation, while others are okay but only in smaller doses. For example, if you go to purchase garlic tablets from a health food store, the 1000mg has the warning "consult a doctor if pregnant or nursing" but the 500mg does not. Proper dosage is important even when taking vitamin C, as too much of it during the course of your pregnancy can condition your baby's body to higher levels and they will experience withdrawal symptoms after birth. However, this doesn't mean to stay away from it completely. Some herbs can cause miscarriage or bring on early labor. But some are useful in helping to start labor when overdue or to increase milk supply when nursing. I think that the key is to never "self-prescribe" without having done research or consulted a specialist (doctor, midwife, herbalist). A good website for some basic herb dos and don'ts is americanpregnancy.org -- Laura Tolman

  April 9, 2008 - 11:41pm | mamas

Chicken Soup

By the way, good point about the nutrients of real chicken soup. One doctor has made it his life's calling to come up with the perfect chicken soup for illness and it apparently works wonders. It is very potent I hear, but good for the body.-- Laura Tolman

  April 9, 2008 - 4:01pm | akvbacmom

use herbs with caution too

do your research before using herbs or consult an herbalist, midwife or naturopath. Some herbs are safe and beneficial during pregnancy and breastfeeding, others are not safe. Goldenseal, for example is a uterine stimulant. It could cause a miscarriage and is not considered safe for pregnancy.